Dennis Kiprotich
Talk about the unromantic details
Before moving in, discuss rent, utilities, chores, guests, privacy, conflict, and what happens if the relationship ends. Agreeing on these things is not unromantic; it helps both people understand the commitment.
Joy Wambui
Do not let financial pressure make the decision for you
Sharing costs may be useful, but it should not be the only reason to move in. Consider whether you feel safe saying no, whether you can keep access to your own money and support network, and whether you have a realistic exit plan.
Collins Were
Move at a pace both people can freely choose
A relationship timeline that works for one couple may not suit another. The important questions are whether both people want the arrangement, can discuss concerns honestly, and are free to change their minds without threats or coercion.
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A relationship timeline that works for one couple may not suit another. The important questions are whether both people want the arrangement, can discuss concerns honestly, and are free to change their minds without threats or coercion.
Sharing costs may be useful, but it should not be the only reason to move in. Consider whether you feel safe saying no, whether you can keep access to your own money and support network, and whether you have a realistic exit plan.
Before moving in, discuss rent, utilities, chores, guests, privacy, conflict, and what happens if the relationship ends. Agreeing on these things is not unromantic; it helps both people understand the commitment.