Who should pay on a first date in Kenya?

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Wambui Kariuki · Answer

If you invite someone and choose the venue, be prepared to pay. Inviting someone should come with a realistic understanding of the cost.

Patrick Owino · Answer

I prefer splitting the bill. It keeps things simple and avoids the feeling that either person owes the other something.

Abdullahi Hassan · Answer

I like taking turns. One person pays this time, the other can plan the next date if both want another one.

Francis Kiprono · Answer

Whoever offers to pay should not use it later as evidence that the other person owes them affection or a second date.

Samuel Kipchoge · Answer

The most important thing is agreeing on a place both people can comfortably afford. Nobody should have to borrow money to impress a date.

Carol Jepchirchir · Answer

I think either person can pay, regardless of gender. Courtesy and financial ability matter more than a rigid rule.

Janet Moraa · Answer

If someone chooses an expensive place without asking about my budget, I would rather discuss it honestly than pretend I am comfortable.

Irene Akinyi · Answer

My rule is simple: communicate, be considerate and never confuse paying for dinner with purchasing someone's attention.

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