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How do adults make real friends after school or university?

What do you think? Share a thoughtful perspective and useful details for other NairobiCity readers.
What do you think? Share a thoughtful perspective and useful details for other NairobiCity readers.
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  1. Esther Muthoni

    Choose recurring spaces

    Friendship is easier when people see each other repeatedly. Consider a weekly sports group, a class, volunteering, a book club, a creative meetup, or a community activity. One-off events can be fun, but recurring contact creates more chances to build trust.

  2. Mark Ochieng

    Be the person who follows up

    After a good conversation, suggest a specific low-pressure plan: coffee, a walk, a game, or attending the next event together. Many people are open to friendship but hesitate to initiate. Follow up without assuming that one delayed reply means rejection.

  3. Carol Jepchirchir

    Build a wider network slowly

    Not every new acquaintance becomes a close friend. It is normal to have different people for hobbies, work, neighbourhood support, and deeper conversations. Give relationships time and pay attention to mutual effort.

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